Tifanny has posted her memorial here if people would like to see the man that was most precious to her.
She reminds me that moving on is not forgetting, it is living forward not in the past. You will never lose the stories but you cannot bring him back. That is the acceptance part. Once you […]
When you lose someone you suffer all the emotions that are negative:- sadness, loneliness, depression. But we have not got to remember the wonderful side of having loved someone.
L= Learning to share your life with someone else
O= Opening your heart to feeling the sheer ecstasy of being in love
V= Valuing the thoughts and emotions of […]
We know that when we suffer loss we go through a grief cycle - Anger, Denial, Rejection, Acceptance and Integration. I can understand the process and also knowing that has helped me come to terms with the grief.
I was trying to think of what binds the cycle and I feel that talking is the key. […]
If you think about a heart, it needs blood flowing in and flowing out - it is a pump that protects your life. My aunt said to me the other day talked to me about how helps her heart.
She said “Your heart needs lifeblood flowing in….and I think that you can help this by exercise, […]
I have found since my loss that I have wanted to go out less, socialise…it all seems a waste of time or not what I want to do. The problem is that the more you are by yourself, the more you want to be and the less you interact with people. Tonight my best friend […]
My friend phoned today, to say that her mother had passed away. Elsie was 88 years old and died peacefully. She was a wonderful lady who always had time for people, and wore an ever present sincere smile. The world will be poorer for Elsie dying but has been enriched by her life.
My love goes […]
I asked yesterday if anyone had seen their spouse once they had died, well Tiffany answered
“I have had quite a few dreams with my Josh in them. They have all varied from him just saying hello to him giving me answers to questions that I asked. When ever I dream about him I wake up feeling […]
I was speaking to my aunt last night and she was so excited because her son had just received a doctorate. Her voice was sad and happy, because her husband died about 7 years ago and she was upset that he was not here to feel the pride that she was feeling. I asked her […]
I said that as part of putting my life back on track I wanted to lose weight - and start to value myself more. When we lose someone it is so easy to let ourselves go, as “What does it matter, right?” Well, this year I want to take action and I have started on […]
The post yesterday about the letter I received from Joan really has brought some great comments, have a read if you are feeling down today. The essence of the responses are that no matter how deep you depressions, no matter how much grief has taken hold, there is hope. If an 87 year old can […]
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