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Widows Quest

March 20th, 2007

Proud of my dad

For the last couple of days I have been in London, and the most extraordinary moment was when someone wanted to talk to me about my late father….they recognised my name. It took me a back because in a way I had forgotten how he had touched other people during his life. As time pass […]

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March 18th, 2007

Happy Mothers Day

In the UK we are celebrating mothers day and I am so happy to say that I have my mum in my life. She is off cruising at the moment around the carribean - not that I am jealous or anything!
I have tried to phone her on the ship but I missed her before she […]

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March 17th, 2007

5 Good Aspects of Grief

This sounds a strange post but I do think that when you lose someone that you do grow, that you do benefit in some way. Here are my thoughts
1) Appreciation of how special life is….
2) Understanding what love really is….
3) Finding out who are your true friends…
4) The desire to reach out to […]

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March 16th, 2007

Teleconference on Grief

I have just read about a teleconference on how to handle grief on March 22. It is a sponsored conference and is open to the public and free. For those of you struggling it may be an event that can help you with your hurt.
Tags: bereavement, Grief, heartbroken, loss-of-a-loved-one, love, love-letters, teleconference, terminal-illness, widow, widower

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March 16th, 2007

Personal Grief

When I posted last night about the funeral webcasts I felt uncomfortable, somehow the idea was not one that felt right to me. When you read the comments you realise that each one of us are different. Each circumstance is personal and what feels right to one, does not necessarily fit for another. Grief is […]

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March 16th, 2007

Memories, keepsakes

I don’t believe on holding on to the past, I have done it but all it did was drain me and increase the hurt. So I have given a lot away to charity but there are certain keepsakes that will never leave my house.

An old tatty jumper  - I have no idea why but it […]

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March 14th, 2007

Dealing with Finances as a widow

Dealing with all the finances can be so difficult and a site that can help is unwanted change I am a Chartered Accountant by trade so therefore finance has never had a fear for me, but this paragraph on the site brought home to me the difficulties….
“In fact AARP research shows that of the estimated […]

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March 9th, 2007

Inspirational and Moving - Maya Angelou

On the Life Coach Blog there is a wonderfully inspiring video of the On the Pulse of Morning by Maya Angelou. Here is a snippet
Lift up your hearts.
Each new hour holds new chances
For new beginnings.
Do not be wedded forever
To fear, yoked eternally
To brutishness.
The horizon leans forward,
Offering you space to place new steps of change
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March 5th, 2007

I love my mum

I love my mum and even more since Dad died. She is a born worrier and not the easiest person but her unconditional love has supported me throughout the years. Today she got diagnosed with a heart complaint and though I don’t think it is a major concern at this stage - she is 76 […]

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February 20th, 2007

Love Letters

A friend bought me a little book of famous love letters, here is one that I wanted to share by W H Auden
I will love you till the ocean
Is folded and hung up to dry,
And the seven stars go squawking
Like geese about the sky.
The years will run like rabbits,
For in my arms I hold
The flower […]

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