A Follow Up Comment about Dreams
I asked yesterday if anyone had seen their spouse once they had died, well Tiffany answered
“I have had quite a few dreams with my Josh in them. They have all varied from him just saying hello to him giving me answers to questions that I asked. When ever I dream about him I wake up feeling better. I know that he is with me every day, but there is just something about being able to see him in my dreams that reminds me that he is still here.”
Oh I do envy that. It must be great to have that comfort. I often fear that the reason that I don’t see him is because my 
love isn’t as great as it I believe it to be…then I realise that each person is different. Each person deals with grief in their own ways - many through humor. It is not about love, it is how your body and mind cope during the grief process.
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1 opinion for A Follow Up Comment about Dreams
Tiffany
Jan 19, 2007 at 12:07 pm
I am just glad that my dreams are positive ones. For the first few weeks I would dream of the accident and me trying to get him out of the truck. I was not at the scene when he died but I beat my self up for a long time thinking that if I was there I could have gotten him out. So sometimes dreaming of your loved one is not the best way to remember them. His mom is now having the nightmares I used to have and I hope that one day she will be able to see him a positive way in her dreams like I do. Just because we can not see the person in our dreams does not mean they are not with us all the time. For me its the little things like a song or a bird flying by or when I can smell him in my room. Those things all make me know hat he is with me all the time.
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