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Archive for January 2008

January 31st, 2008

You are never too old to exercise through grief

I was talking to mum last night and was amazed at the age of 77 she has just purchased her first treadmill! Since losing Dad, mum has tried to keep active, she says that walking and activity helps keep the depression and grief at bay.
I couldn’t agree more and have always encouraged her to get […]

By anna -- 2 comments

January 30th, 2008

Pets are a wonderful source of love

Do you ever have that feeling of loneliness? Do you ever feel alone? I know I do. I feel lucky as I have 3 cats - Molly, Mabel and Harry. I never meant to have cats but unfortunately - or fortunately! - I have many farmer friends who do not want the farm cats offsprings…I […]

By anna -- 3 comments

January 30th, 2008

What are your passions?

I came across this quote that made me think, it is by Charolotte-Catherine
“The more passions and desires one has, the more ways one has of being happy.”
The issue is that one of our passions has died, the bereavement can make us feel that all our passion has disappeared. In reality that is not true. We […]

By anna -- 1 comment

January 28th, 2008

More on Watching Someone Die

I posted a while ago about Watching Someone Die and Gloria just posted a comment that touched my heart, the comment ended
“The one thing I walk away with is the knowledge that he was a great man, an unbelievable father and an undying love and trust for God. He will help me through this.”
It touched […]

By anna -- 3 comments

January 27th, 2008

Carnival of Positive Thinking

Well done to us all, for coping with another week and moving forward in small ways towards this new life after our grief. Each Sunday I bring together a series of articles to help us understand how to find that happiness, despite our bereavement. I hope they help

Wyatt Song presents Making the impossible possible - […]

By anna -- 7 comments

January 26th, 2008

6 Thought on Grief

Grief is a strange emotion, and as time goes by I realise how hard it is…
G = Grief is something that needs work, we need to understand that although time helps…it is only when we use that time to cope with our feelings that we start to come through it.
R = Remember death happens to […]

By anna -- 0 comments

January 25th, 2008

Anything Worth Having…..

Think of anything you like, anything worth having needs work, needs commitment, needs us to keep going through the hard times. Think honestly about your relationship, there were hard times, there were times when you were grumpy with each other…what made it special is that you worked through the hard times knowing that the shared […]

By anna -- 0 comments

January 24th, 2008

How to Create Your New Future

As much as we do not believe it, there is a future there waiting for us. The future may not include our loved one but there is a future that we can enjoy. A piece of advice that I was given by an aunt stays with me…
 ”Imagine your ideal world, imagine how you look, how […]

By anna -- 0 comments

January 23rd, 2008

Goodbye Heath Ledger…

I could not believe the news about the healthy, upcoming actor Heath Ledger. I always believe that the one thing we can offer people in death, is some dignity. I don’t know if it just me but somehow seeing the body removed, seeing people interviewed about what may have happened, is not giving him and […]

By anna -- 3 comments

January 21st, 2008

When it is just all too much….

…I received a heart wrenching email from someone who was ready to finish it all, ready to give in to the grief and bring an end to the heartache. I can so understand that feeling, I can so understand how people reach that point BUT I beg any of you who have those thoughts to […]

By anna -- 4 comments