19 Creative Coffins
I read on trendhunter an article looking at coffins and it says
“ As the coffin represents a final resting place for many humans, it makes sense that they should reflect the lives of the people they were designed for, a great example being the eco-friendly coffins for treehuggers and Star Trek coffins for the geek set.”
It made me think about when I chose the coffin, I hated it. To me it was an empty, wooden box that did not reflect his personality, did not reflect a person but I felt a death. Coffins are strange…on one hand I think they are incredibly expensive and on the other they are the final resting place. Maybe if I had seen these creative ones, I could have felt better about leaving him inside that box….oh I tear well up when I think of that…
Do you know as a child I never realised that anyone was inside, I thought they were symbolic….I think for me I will have the cheapest coffin going….let people enjoy that little bit of money on a party to celebrate my life…either that or an iPod shaped one as the music and podcasts have so helped me through my grief.
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19 Creative Coffins
Jul 15, 2008 at 9:24 am
[…] widowsquest.com wrote an interesting post today onHere’s a quick excerpt I read on trendhunter an article looking at coffins and it says “ As the coffin represents a final resting place for many humans, it makes sense that they should reflect the lives of the people they were designed for, a great example being the eco-friendly coffins for treehuggers and Star Trek coffins for the geek set.” It made me think about when I chose the coffin, I hated it. To me it was an empty, wooden box that did not reflect his personality, did not reflect a person but I felt a death […]
Mary
Jul 15, 2008 at 6:10 pm
Anna,
I couldn’t let this pass without throwing in my 2 cents. I’ve heard about coffins that reflect one’s personal interests, and it will be interesting for archeologists in the future when they unearth them.
Michael was cremated, but he wanted a viewing before. I rented a coffin and paid for a liner (a requirement) for his cremation. He was a practical and frugal guy, so I think he would have appreciated the rental. I think it was important for his family to see his body in order to accept the reality of his death. My plan (and his original wish) was to scatter his ashes in a favorite provincial park in Canada. I knew that he was disenchanted with the park when we last visited it (a couple years before his death). He was leaning towards having his ashes scattered with mine when I go. Now I’ve got his ashes in the entertainment center (positioned between his stereo speakers, so he can still enjoy his music.) He might not be enjoying it as much, since I’m playing more of my music now. I really feel comforted having him at home, and I wasn’t sure if I would. When the funeral director delivered his ashes to my home, I thought at first that I’d made a big mistake. But it turned out to be a good decision. In 1989 I visited Bryce Canyon in Utah. It made such an impression, that I wanted to be there for eternity. I’ve told everyone since, that I wanted my ashes scattered at Inspiration Point. Michael loved Bridges of Madison County, so he wanted to be blown to the wind with me. I hope that happens.
Anna
Jul 16, 2008 at 2:21 am
What a great idea a rental…I had never thought about that. I too have the ashes and talk to them when I need to….sure if my neighbours ever look into my home they must think I have lost my mind!
But somehow the ashes make me feel close which I think really helps….the only thing I worry about is whether the ashes hold me back, that I am not letting go ?
The key for him was that he didn’t want there to be any feeling of having to look after his grave that is why he wanted to be cremated. He wanted people to remember him alive rather than go to a grave and remember his death.
I think that is what I want to…for me cremation brings some finality….if that makes sense?
In fact writing this I remember him saying why not use my ashes as cat litter….it would be nice to be useful!!!! ….it makes me smile as I can see his smile now and makes me remember his love of life
Efrem Cockett
Jul 18, 2008 at 1:24 am
Thought you might like to look at http://www.creativecoffins.com
At Creative Coffins we are extremely committed to providing a green alternative to traditional wooden coffins but don’t believe that this should mean comprising on choice or style.
Our individually designed and printed carton board coffins provide for a more eco-friendly funeral and, most importantly, the range of carefully created styles will help you find a design that truly reflects the personality of your loved one.
The designs range from the dignified and beautiful to the quirky and humorous with options that reflect a variety of interests and pastimes.
However, if you have a specific request, then commissioning a bespoke design couldn’t be easier. Your funeral director will give you the contact details of our friendly, professional staff who will discuss your requirements and translate your initial instructions into a completely individual design.
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